To really understand another person’s point of view, you need to climb inside their skin and walk around for a bit. 

Empathy the hard skill of leadership

Solve the tough issues with compassion. To really understand another person and consider things from their point of view, you need to climb inside their skin and walk around for a bit. The role of the leader is not about “being in charge”, rather taking care of the people “in your charge” – this is Empathy in action. The agreement is not a requirement of Empathy – it simply means you acknowledge their pain and upset. The moment you take on their pain and upset, you move from Empathy to Sympathy and you can no longer be of service to them. Empathy fuels connection, so while you are listening don’t start “fixing”. When you start fixing them, you will cause isolation and disconnection and keep them stuck. If we can maintain our Empathy, and not slip into Sympathy, we grow our people – this is the role of the Leader. TAKEAWAYS How to take an Empathetic perspective How to keep your judgement at bay Clearing the fog between Empathy and Sympathy Staying connected in the face of upset

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Leading with a Sense of Urgency

    The art of getting stuff done! For some people, urgency is an integral part of who they are, and you can absolutely rely on them. For others, we need to create the environment to move tasks forward purposefully. Where are your tolerance levels? Do you walk past things or say something immediately when you notice they are not on track. Leading with a sense of urgency is the “Art” of getting stuff done in a timely manner, noticing when people are busy being busy and not producing the work. This is the key to your success. TAKEAWAYS How to recognize when there is false urgency What does it take to notice where complacency is present in your business Recognise where time wasting is happening and how to keep tasks on track What delegating with authority looks like

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Silence Is Not Golden

  When people aren’t talking – don’t mistake their silence for acceptance. Have you ever walked away from a conversation with that niggling feeling that everything wasn’t okay, even though you had assurances that “all was good”. You decided to leave it and just as you predicted, it came back to bite you. Now the problem is bigger and deeper, and more entrenched in the business. How do you interrupt yourself, and them, when this is happening? Come along and learn the tools for interrupting “The Violence of Silence”. TAKEAWAYS Creating an environment where feedback is welcomed and appreciated What to do when their complaint has that little bit of truth that derails you How to deal with slippery passive aggressive behaviour How the fear of reprisal impedes us from speaking our minds

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Is Motivation Hijacking Your Results

Swapping motivation for self discipline and action Businesses use “motivation” to improve morale when the best morale booster is high performance.  What does it take to produce a high performing team where you as the leader are not the “motivation bunny”!  Are you finding this merry-go-round exhausting and dissatisfying? When we use motivation as a tool we create entitlement inside of our organisation which breeds an underlying resentment flowing both ways.  Stop the cycle and discover the power of self discipline with action, which will produce the results you want. In this webinar we will look at what it takes to swap motivation for action. KEY TAKEAWAYS Why positive thinking hides the truth and causes damage Discover why paying individual incentives doesn’t give you the results you seek The difference between discipline and motivation Identify and remove the obstacles to producing extraordinary results

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When Times Are Tough, Loyalty Navigates The Storm

Loyalty is not a given – it is a demonstration of commitment The “low” road is to demand Loyalty to you personally.  The “high” road is to demand Loyalty to the organisation’s purpose, vision and values.  When you are disloyal to the values of the organisation, you give your people permission to do the same – they are watching you. When Loyalty is present, you build responsibility inside of the business and the results will follow. You’re invited to our next webinar – where we will look at Loyalty as a matter of integrity and debunk the mythology surrounding it. Key takeaways: What builds Loyalty and what does not How higher Loyalty underpins powerful cultures How Loyalty is active not passive How Integrity and Truth telling are the cornerstones of Loyalty

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Results Start With The Human In The Mirror

  “The only true knowledge is knowing you know nothing”. Socrates This rings true for the “self aware”.  Self awareness allows you to analyse your behaviour and its impact on others.  Taking a good hard look in the mirror, being with the good, the bad and the ugly of you, is the pathway to personal confidence as a leader.  When you acknowledge this, you empower the people around you to do the same This is the job of the leader and the most satisfying part of your role. In this webinar we will examine why it is so hard to look at ourselves with no facade. KEY TAKEAWAYS Getting uncomfortable in your own skin is the key to growing your self awareness. Learn the 3 words to bring legitimacy to your leadership Bring authenticity to your leadership and your team will follow suit What is the consequence of a lack of self awareness?

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